Difference of opinion occurs over many issues. But most of the time the great issues and disputes are based on very small things that are negligible. To avoid disputes is the better thing. If one does not like something from his brother in Islam, he should simply ignore it by staying quiet. In this way, the person who spoke ill or treated bad will realize his mistake sooner this needs a lot of patience. But mostly issues are not avoided and they end up in small or big disputes. To resolve the issues between brothers and sisters is a good and liked deed.
There are several ahadith that specially discuss this issue. Below are given few of them,
From the above ahadith it is concluded that, even though the disputes occur and arguments are fired, the thing which no muslim should forget is that it will be act of taqwa If we forget the disputes and resolve the issues being the first.
“And hold fast, all of you together, to the Rope of Allaah (i.e. this Qur’aan), and be not divided among yourselves” 3:103The best choice is to avoid arguments and to avoid the disputes by keeping in mind the message of Quran. But when an issue occur, this is what a true muslim should do,
There are several ahadith that specially discuss this issue. Below are given few of them,
It was narrated that Abu Ayyoob al-Ansaari (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “It is not permissible for a Muslim to forsake his brother for more than three days, each of them turning away when they meet. The better of them is the one who gives the greeting of salaam first.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 2757; Muslim, 2560.
From the above ahadith it is concluded that, even though the disputes occur and arguments are fired, the thing which no muslim should forget is that it will be act of taqwa If we forget the disputes and resolve the issues being the first.