Islamic View on natural attraction between Male and Female

Allah SWT has created pairs of everything in Universe. In human beings as well he created Males and Females and he kept a natural attraction between Male and Female which a Male feels for a Female and Female feels for a Male. Allah Swt says in the Holy Quran 30:21:

Among His Signs is that He created spouses for you of your own kind so that you might find tranquility in them. And He has placed affection and compassion between you. There are certainly Signs in that for people who reflect.
But Allah Swt has also told us the guidelines how to control this attraction and fulfill it through right way. If we will follow those guidelines we will be successful in this life and hereafter as well and if we will not follow our this life we be destroyed as well as hereafter. now I would like to talk about those guidelines that are given to us by Allah Swt:

1 Hijab of Women
2 Men must lower their gaze.
3 Implementing the Islamic laws.
4 no unnecessary meeting between non-mehram men and women.
5 Marriage

If we will follow these guidelines we will be able to make a good society and if we will not follow these guidelines we can see the practical examples of destruction of Western society where the family system is destroyed, High number of rapes, Sexual harassment, high rate of divorces and many other such problems. In Western countries most of Kids don't even know who is their father?

solution of all these problems is in the above given Guidelines by the Islam. these Guidelines let us fulfill our desire through right way and protects the family system.
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