Pride and arrogance are the worst attributes which destroy every kind of relationship. Our hearts should be filled with humility and submission.
We should readily accept the excuse of our friends ,brothers and sisters and try to resolve conflicts .
We are very rigid most of the times and are not comprehending the situation through which the people who have committed any fault were going through.
Many times people are not so bad and they are good at heart but we pick certain words uttered by them in anger and donot forgive them even though they acknowledge their mistake and regret on what they have done.
It is mentioned in Quran that Allah loves those who forgive others.Allah swt says:
who repress anger, and who pardon men; verily, Allâh loves Al-Muhsinûn (the gooddoers). (Aali Imran 3:134)
On another instance Allah swt mentions the attributes of the true belivers: O you who believe! Whoever from among you turns back from his religion (Islâm), Allâh will bring a people whom He will love and they will love Him; humble towards the believers, stern towards the disbelievers, (Al-Ma'idah 5:54)
Companions of Holy prophet have been praised by Allah swt because they were loving each other and were hard on disbelievers .Allah swt says:
Muhammad (SAW) is the Messenger of Allâh, and those who are with him are severe against disbelievers, and merciful among themselves. (Al-Ma'idah 5:54)
Those people who are not ready to forgive others are actually victim of pride they should keep in mind the hadith of Rasool sala laho aliehi wasalam quoted by Imam Muslim in His saheeh that the person who has a speck of pride in his heart cannot enter Jannah.
We should readily accept the excuse of our friends ,brothers and sisters and try to resolve conflicts .
We are very rigid most of the times and are not comprehending the situation through which the people who have committed any fault were going through.
Many times people are not so bad and they are good at heart but we pick certain words uttered by them in anger and donot forgive them even though they acknowledge their mistake and regret on what they have done.
It is mentioned in Quran that Allah loves those who forgive others.Allah swt says:
who repress anger, and who pardon men; verily, Allâh loves Al-Muhsinûn (the gooddoers). (Aali Imran 3:134)
On another instance Allah swt mentions the attributes of the true belivers: O you who believe! Whoever from among you turns back from his religion (Islâm), Allâh will bring a people whom He will love and they will love Him; humble towards the believers, stern towards the disbelievers, (Al-Ma'idah 5:54)
Companions of Holy prophet have been praised by Allah swt because they were loving each other and were hard on disbelievers .Allah swt says:
Muhammad (SAW) is the Messenger of Allâh, and those who are with him are severe against disbelievers, and merciful among themselves. (Al-Ma'idah 5:54)
Those people who are not ready to forgive others are actually victim of pride they should keep in mind the hadith of Rasool sala laho aliehi wasalam quoted by Imam Muslim in His saheeh that the person who has a speck of pride in his heart cannot enter Jannah.